Marléne ​Rose Shaw


I help people have great confidence, overcome anxiety

 and create happier relationships​


I would not hesitate to recommend her

Marlène has been a fabulous mentor to me for about 8 years. Her empathy and wisdom has been incredible and helped me to navigate through the ups and downs of life. I would not hesitate to recommend her. S Harrison
5.0
2019-04-19T09:50:38+01:00
Marlène has been a fabulous mentor to me for about 8 years. Her empathy and wisdom has been incredible and helped me to navigate through the ups and downs of life. I would not hesitate to recommend her. S Harrison

Marléne is a fabulous therapist…..

Whatever your particular problem, she can help you think about things in a totally different way and offers you the tools to resolve your issues and move forward to a happier life. Her book is amazingly helpful too. Full of practical advice and really inspirational. D.Benton
5.0
2018-11-09T18:43:29+01:00
Whatever your particular problem, she can help you think about things in a totally different way and offers you the tools to resolve your issues and move forward to a happier life. Her book is amazingly helpful too. Full of practical advice and really inspirational. D.Benton

Highly recommended…..

Marléne is amazing she offers and gives a life changing service K Jones
5.0
2018-11-09T18:44:48+01:00
Marléne is amazing she offers and gives a life changing service K Jones

Amazing therapist…..

Marlene Rose Shaw is an amazing therapist and an inspirational person. Highly recommended LV Burnett
5.0
2018-11-09T18:48:36+01:00
Marlene Rose Shaw is an amazing therapist and an inspirational person. Highly recommended LV Burnett

A professional and supportive therapist…..

Marlene is a professional and supportive therapist who has helped me understand how to manage my life priorities, deal with my problems and I had tried a number of 'therapies' over a period of 20 years and it was not until I met with Marlene and read her book 'Out of Fear and Into Love' that I started to live happily again. Her gentle and professional approach assured me she was listening and understood what I could do to get my life back on track. Marlene is an excellent therapist and I would highly recommend her to anyone who has any problem from a simple 'I don't know what is the best option' life decision to more complex problems such as depression and anxiety. Thank you Marlene
5.0
2018-11-09T18:50:46+01:00
Marlene is a professional and supportive therapist who has helped me understand how to manage my life priorities, deal with my problems and I had tried a number of 'therapies' over a period of 20 years and it was not until I met with Marlene and read her book 'Out of Fear and Into Love' that I started to live happily again. Her gentle and professional approach assured me she was listening and understood what I could do to get my life back on track. Marlene is an excellent therapist and I would highly recommend her to anyone who has any problem from a simple 'I don't know what is the best option' life decision to more complex problems such as depression and anxiety. Thank you Marlene

Marléne really helped me…..

When I first went to see Marléne, I was in a place of mental isolation, suffering from severe panic attacks and great anxiety, which at its worst changed me from a very open, life-loving person, into an agoraphobic, who hardly ever ventured out. Marléne really helped me through that difficult, and harrowing time. With her help, and some positive life changes, I am now back to my life-loving self, with a few cognitive tools from the sessions with Marlene, that help keep my thoughts and emotions in check.
5.0
2018-11-09T18:53:54+01:00
When I first went to see Marléne, I was in a place of mental isolation, suffering from severe panic attacks and great anxiety, which at its worst changed me from a very open, life-loving person, into an agoraphobic, who hardly ever ventured out. Marléne really helped me through that difficult, and harrowing time. With her help, and some positive life changes, I am now back to my life-loving self, with a few cognitive tools from the sessions with Marlene, that help keep my thoughts and emotions in check.

A brilliant mixture of professionalism and empathy

Marléne’s counselling and support changed my life. A brilliant mixture of professionalism and empathy, I felt comfortable talking and discussing issues with Marléne and can not thank her enough for what she’s done for me. Lauren B
5.0
2018-11-10T14:36:03+01:00
Marléne’s counselling and support changed my life. A brilliant mixture of professionalism and empathy, I felt comfortable talking and discussing issues with Marléne and can not thank her enough for what she’s done for me. Lauren B
5
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My Exceptional Life

Weekly ​Tips and Inspirations
for More Confidence and Happier Relationships

Who I Help

Sessions for Individuals
​Sessions for Individuals​I specialise in helping individual clients in the following areas:Relationship ProblemsConfidence and Self-esteem​Overcoming AnxietyAnger Management​Post Traumatic Stress PTSDWe[...]
Couples Counselling
​Couples CounsellingCouples Counselling is a specific area of counselling which requires specialised training and qualifications. With a Post Graduate Diploma[...]
Supervision for Counsellors and Therapists
​Supervision for Counsellors and Therapists​I love supervising counsellors and therapists – it gives me great joy and inspiration to help[...]


Specialist Areas:

How I Can Help You ​​

Help for Relationship Problems
Help for Relationship ProblemsRelationships—this is where we can face our greatest challenges; they try us and reward us, they cause[...]
Help for Confidence and Low Self-Esteem
Help for ​Confidence and Low Self-EsteemIf you're struggling with your confidence you probably find that it stops you from achieving[...]
Help for Anxiety and Panic Attacks
Help for ​​Anxiety and Panic​If you’ve been experiencing anxiety or panic attacks, you’ll know how overwhelming it can be. It[...]
Help for Post Traumatic Stress
Help for ​Post Traumatic StressPeople often associate trauma with the Post Traumatic Stress Disorder PTSD experienced by those who have[...]

Books

Have you tried to make changes in your life but then slipped back into old patterns?



The limiting beliefs we learn in childhood remain in the subconscious and hold us back from gaining confidence and having better relationships


In this book you will learn:

  • To identify the 4 most common limiting beliefs and how they may be impacting  your life


  • To restore the 4 types of self-love that those beliefs have been blocking





  • To use the incredibly powerful Emotional Freedom Techniques to help you let go of those limiting beliefs – permanently​
  • ​PLUS -An important step, often overlooked, which will significantly help you to let go of anxiety, feel more confident and have healthy relationships



In the many years I’ve been helping people gain more confidence and happier relationships, there’s one question that comes up time and again ...... how can I be more assertive without upsetting people?

Many people struggle to ​be ​​speak their truth and set boundaries because:


  • They fear disapproval or rejection
  • ​They worry about not being nice
  • They don't want to come across as arrogant

How Kind People Get Tough is based  on more than 25 years helping clients gain confidence, ​ happier relationships and more fulfilling lives.


Including case studies, tools, tips and techniques on being truly assertive, in lovingly kind ways.​

PLUS Free Online Companion Course to help you put the tools, tips and techniques into practice.



​​ Therapies


The world of therapy has radically changed in recent years. Modern Energy Psychologies combined with conventional Talk Therapies means that we can go beyond the results that traditional counselling has to offer


​Techniques such as
Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) and Matrix Reimprinting, (collectively known as Energy Psychology) are fast-acting methods which can access the subconscious mind to help you let go of self-limiting beliefs that have been keeping you stuck.

By combining these leading edge techniques with traditional therapies such as
Talk Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (C.B.T) and Transactional Analysis (T.A) I can help you quickly identify the underlying limiting beliefs that are causing your problems, let them go and create new more helpful ways of approaching life.

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Assertiveness Skills Quiz

With assertiveness comes more confidence, happy relationships and success


However, many people struggle because they’re confused about what true assertiveness means, and how to effectively put assertiveness skills into practice.


​There are four aspects to leading a more assertive and confident life.


Take this quiz to discover how you score for each, and get some handy tips on ​how ​to increase your confidence and gain happier relationships.

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