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Are You Brave Enough to Be Vulnerable?

Being Brave

We often associate assertiveness with being courageous. I’ve found though, that people get muddled up with the idea that to be courageous means ‘staying strong’ and not showing feelings.

I love the Niccolò Machiavelli quote:

​‘Develop the strength to do bold things, not the strength to suffer.’

It tells us that being truly courageous is about being bold, speaking up, being our authentic self. It's not about putting on a mask and pretending that everything is ok.

So when we allow ourselves to be vulnerable and share that with others, well that’s a very brave and assertive thing to do.

It’s about self-acceptance. It is saying,‘This is me and I accept me as I am. I may not be comfortable, but right now in this moment this is where I'm at - I'm human.

​The lovely thing is that very often, once we open our hearts and accept ourselves - others see that and so they accept us too. They respect and admire our courage for being our true selves, and that validation is a great boost for self-esteem.

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​The added bonus is that sharing vulnerability also gives other people the message that it’s ok for them to be vulnerable too. That's an act of kindness.

So the next time you feel vulnerable and feel you have to hide it - be brave.

Take courage to step into the light and say I’m feeling worried, anxious, unsure, vulnerable here. It’s just where I’m at right now – and I’m brave enough to say so. Now that's being assertive!

​You're fed up being a people pleaser. 

You want to say 'no' without fear or guilt

​​​​​You want your ​friends, family, partner - to hear ​You, appreciate you and respect you

It's time to​

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How Kind People Get Tough

How Kind People Get Tough

Based on more than 25 years helping clients gain confidence, happier relationships and more fulfilling lives.

5.0 out of 5 stars Absolutely fantastic read!

All I can say is this book has been one of the best in it`s field that I have ever read. It’s a modern day elite toolkit for surviving life. Very well done Marléne!

5.0 out of 5 stars I highly recommend this book.

I couldn't put this book down. The Author doesn't overwhelm you with too much information- each section is easy to understand and you are instilled with an understanding of the correct ways to become more assertive. I very soon noticed a difference in my own communications with others when I practised the given techniques, - I've loads to learn but the confidence obtained in trying is a huge boost. I'm eagerly looking forward to more insightful reading from Marléne Rose Shaw.

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5.0 out of 5 stars A powerful, life-changing book

What an amazing read this book is. The author has given those of us who struggle with confidence issues the tools to change our lives around and become the person we've always wanted to be. Thank you for your words of wisdom Marléne. I will always be grateful.

5.0 out of 5 stars A must read!!

I highly recommend this book. It's full of insight and case studies that are very relatable. Read this book to change your life for the better. It's a good book to dip back into as well. Well done to the author for another fabulous book.

5.0 out of 5 stars Layers of supportive writing and materials

Such a well written book with layers of support in the advice and case studies. so helpful for all kinds of relationships and communication. Marlene’s 2nd book is a must have for successful communication and outcomes in life. Thank you

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