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Why Other People Don’t Treat You As Well As You Treat Them
Have you ever found yourself thinking, Why don’t other people treat me as well as I treat them? You're kind, thoughtful, always offering a helping hand, but instead of appreciation, you’re left being taken…
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How To Be Kind Without Sacrificing Your Own Needs
Sometimes we think about success in terms of the things we achieve, for example in our working life, or things we obtain, such as a house, a car or money. And yes, those…
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How To Set Boundaries Without Being Controlling
Do you want to set boundaries but you worry you may come across as being controlling?As a therapist who specialises in self-esteem and relationships, the topic of boundaries often comes up in my sessions.…
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How To Stop Feeling The Need To Fit In
If someone were to ask you, "Do you want milk in your coffee?" you’d likely speak up with a confident “Yes please” or “No thanks”. When we know our preferences and what matters to…
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How To Break The People Pleasing Habit
Are you fed up with constantly having to put other's needs before your own? Perhaps you feel guilty if you say no? You worry what others will think of you? Maybe you struggle…
